Etiquette for Planning a Baby Shower
July 21, 2010 by author
Filed under baby shower
Throwing a baby shower may seem as easy as hosting an afternoon tea party. Well, not exactly. In planning a baby shower, there are some things that you need to consider which are beyond brewing a pot of tea.
Who is throwing the baby shower party?
Traditionally, any one close to the mother-to-be, except for the immediate relative. Having a relative of the expectant mom throw the shower would seem as if the family is asking for presents.
When to organize the baby shower?
Most people prefer to schedule during the last trimester when the expectant mom’s belly is more prominent. However, it is also acceptable to hold the shower after the baby’s birth. What’s important is to confirm with the family to avoid any conflicts in schedule and make sure that guests are available to attend.
Who are invited?
It is a common practice to invite the expectant mom’s close female friends and relatives. But it has become acceptable to invite male friends and members of the family, who are mostly husbands of the female guests. If you are having a coed baby shower, it’s best to prepare activities that both men and women will enjoy.
What activities should be prepared for the shower?
Serve some food and refreshments, depending on the budget. Aside from socializing with the mom-to-be, guests will have fun with some silly games.
It’s exciting to plan a baby shower. Just use this guideline to make the shower enjoyable for the mom-to-be and the guests.

